Know your fit before you invest your time. CompatibleIQ shows you where you align across values, attachment, communication, and emotional intelligence — before the first date.
For serious singles done wasting energy on the wrong matches.
Your CIQ Profile
6 Dimensions
Measured & scored
84
CIS Score
Highly Compatible
Dimension Breakdown
Sound Familiar?
You're not crazy. You're probably just matching on the wrong things. On most apps, you talk first and find out later that your values, communication style, emotional depth, or life rhythm are completely off. CompatibleIQ flips that. You see your fit before you waste your time.
See real compatibility before the first date
Avoid dead-end conversations with the wrong people
Match on substance, not just surface attraction
Get a deeper breakdown when a match is worth exploring
Tinder helps you meet more people. CompatibleIQ helps you meet better-fit people.
Because being attracted is easy. Being aligned is rare.
How It Works
No algorithms guessing what you want. No swiping through strangers. Just science, applied to finding someone who actually fits your life.
Answer a short, science-backed compatibility assessment in about 7-10 minutes. No trick questions, no vague prompts — just the stuff that actually matters.
See your profile across the six dimensions that shape real relationship fit — values, attachment, communication, emotional intelligence, lifestyle, and love expression.
View your compatibility scores before you invest your time, attention, and effort. No guessing. No games. Just clarity.
The 6 Dimensions
Each dimension is grounded in peer-reviewed research. Together, they create the most complete picture of compatibility available outside a therapist's office.
What actually matters to you in a match — religion, family, finances, lifestyle non-negotiables.
How you bond, seek closeness, or pull away. Rooted in Bowlby's attachment theory.
How you fight matters more than how you flirt. Based on Gottman's research on lasting relationships.
Self-awareness, empathy, emotional regulation. Built on Mayer-Salovey's EI framework.
Career drive, daily rhythms, social energy. Because "work-life balance" means something different to everyone.
How you give and receive love. The difference between feeling loved and just being in a relationship.
Built on Research
CompatibleIQ uses established research in attachment, communication, emotional intelligence, and relationship dynamics to help you match with more clarity and less guesswork. More than chemistry. More than vibes.
John Bowlby & Mary Ainsworth
Attachment Theory
The foundational framework for understanding how early bonds shape adult relationship patterns.
John Gottman
Relationship Dynamics
Four decades of research on what makes relationships succeed or fail — including the "Four Horsemen" of conflict.
Peter Salovey & John Mayer
Emotional Intelligence
The original EI model measuring how people perceive, use, understand, and manage emotions.
Affection Research
Connection Styles
A framework for understanding how individuals express and experience affection differently.
Each assessment uses psychometric scales with established reliability and validity — not arbitrary question sets.
Your Compatibility Intelligence Score (CIS) is a weighted composite across all 6 dimensions — not a single-axis personality type.
As our user base grows, we refine scoring models against real relationship outcomes — making matches more accurate over time.
CompatibleIQ is designed for relationship compatibility insight, not clinical diagnosis. We're transparent about what it is and what it isn't.
The Research
Every dimension is grounded in peer-reviewed research from the scientists who defined how real relationships work.
Four decades of research predicting relationship success from communication and conflict patterns.
Bowlby & Ainsworth
How early bonding experiences shape adult attachment styles and relationship security.
The most widely validated personality framework in psychology, measuring five core trait dimensions.
A model of love built on three components: intimacy, passion, and commitment.
Learn your relationship patterns, blind spots, and strengths before your next connection. Take the same science-backed assessments without entering the dating pool. Know yourself first — date better later.
Same assessments. No dating pool. Switch anytime.
Pricing
Assess, match, and message for free. Upgrade only when you want a deeper breakdown of a promising match.
Free
Everything you need to meet better-fit people.
Resonance Report
A deeper read on one match. Get the full picture before the first date.
CIQ Pro
CIQ Pro pays for itself after 3 reports
Unlimited deep-dive reports for serious daters who want the full picture.
Founding Member — $9.99/mo forever
First 1,000 members lock in CIQ Pro at $9.99/mo. This rate never goes up. Help shape the product and get early access.
FAQ
No. CompatibleIQ uses validated psychometric instruments grounded in decades of relationship science from researchers like Bowlby, Gottman, and Mayer-Salovey. Each dimension is measured with peer-reviewed frameworks, not pop psychology.
The full 6-dimension core assessment takes 7-10 minutes total. Each individual dimension takes about 1-2 minutes. You can complete them all at once or come back and finish later.
All 6 core assessments, your full compatibility profile, matching with other users, seeing your compatibility scores, and messaging your matches. The free tier is genuinely useful — not a teaser.
A Resonance Report is a detailed compatibility breakdown for a specific match. It shows where you align, where you might clash, friction points to watch for, and personalized conversation starters. Think of it as a relationship roadmap before the first date.
No. CompatibleIQ is designed for people seeking meaningful, long-term relationships. Our assessments measure the dimensions that predict lasting compatibility — not surface-level attraction. If you're looking for something casual, this isn't the app for you.
Yes. Our Self-Discovery mode lets you take the same assessments and get your full compatibility profile without entering the dating pool. Great for personal growth or relationship readiness.
Your assessment data is encrypted and never shared with matches without your permission. We don't sell data. We don't run ads. Your profile is only visible to people you're matched with.
7-10 minutes now. Better matches from here on out. The kind of clarity you wish you had three relationships ago.
See Your Real CompatibilityFree forever for all 6 core assessments. No credit card needed.